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Friday, February 25, 2022

On the Road Again

 Dear Lucy,

Today is a milestone day. 

It has been two years since I made person-to-person sales calls and took a trip like the one shown above. Flew Austin to Raleigh yesterday and rented a car. Heading to Raeford, NC this morning to visit a Unilever plant where we have a Fusion 360 pilot in full motion. Then I will drive to Sevierville (pronounced seh-vee-ur-vl) for a BAE dinner. It is hard to say and not easy to find, but will be fun. 

On Saturday morning, I will make my way to Nashville for Autodesk One Team Conference. Excited to see colleagues and friends in Music City.

I've always said if I ever complain about or tire of the travel required to be a top salesperson, then it is time to get out. But this morning, I feel energized, excited, and ready to go make good things happen!

Stay fit and I love you,

Dad


Tuesday, February 22, 2022

Stay Whole Randy

 
Dear Lucy,

Our thoughts and prayers remain with Randy as he goes through more tests this week. I wanted to share this fabulous picture of Joey, Kevin, and Randy on a trip to Home Depot. We love Randy and Liz and are so grateful for their work renovating our Austin home.

Loving God, I pray that you will comfort Randy and provide skill to the hands of his healers, and bless the means used for his cure. 

Love,

Dad

Sunday, February 20, 2022

Dear Harvey: gPage-A-Palooza 2022

Dear Harvey,

Cathy and I are back in Austin for a stretch, and we were thrilled to see so many friends at the club yesterday. My game was a little jet-lagged, but my heart was happy that Jim 'Master of the Games' Hopke and his bride, Kathy, organized golf and dinner.

The game was foursomes counting two low net balls (full handicaps from selected tees) for $10/$10/$10 for the first, second, and third sixes. Plus a $10 individual net skins game. "Bring $40 American CASH and give it to the Commissioner before you tee off." (My plea for a Stableford format and payment in quid fell on death ears.)

Team gPage took the first and second six, and Team Tips won the last six. On Team gPage card, Michael Beiter won two skins with net eagles on 1 and 5, and Don Stuart won two skins with a net eagle on 2 and a gross birdie on 9. Michael Costello also took a skin, and Anna 'Blue Devil' Morales took two (3 & 17). Unless I missed it, Anna's score of 75 was tops for the day. Nicely done!

The golf course was in great shape, and the infrastructure build-out seemed more extensive than any year for the upcoming WGC Dell Technologies Match Play.


Harvey, I imagine your view from above is pretty special!

Team shots to follow,

gPage

P.S. We were all saddened to learn head pro Dale Morgan lost his father over in College Station this weekend. Our prayers are with Dale and his family.

Team Tips: Bob Whitlock, Henrick Olsson, Clas Olsson, Michael Costello

Team gPage: Michael Beiter, Page Singletary, Jim Hopke, Don Stuart

Team Slick: Ken McFarland, Clint Bybee, Anna Morales, Ed Healy

Master of the Games with his new Augusta National Ball Mark.

Anna repping her Blue Devils from top to bottom! Great time with her husband Tom at dinner learning about Richmond, UK, where he grew up, literally right around the corner from where we live now!


Letters to Harvey from The Kingdom:

Other 'golfy' scribblings:
"Millions of people were charmed by the homespun golf advice dispensed in Harvey Penick's Little Red Book, a sports classic that became the best-selling sports book of all time. Yet, beyond the Texas golf courses where Penick happily toiled for the better part of eight decades, few people knew the self-made golf pro who coaxed the best out of countless greats -- Tom Kite, Ben Crenshaw, Betsy Rawls, Mickey Wright -- all champions who considered Penick their coach and lifelong friend." - Kevin Robbins, author of Harvey Penick: The Life and Wisdom of the Man Who Wrote the Book on Golf.
"And if you play golf, you are my friend." - Harvey Penick

Dear Harvey: The Jack Burke Sr. Golf Legacy Tree

John Joseph Burke Sr.
Dear Harvey:

Thanks for writing The Little Red Book, the number one selling golf book. Since joining Austin Country Club, 20 years ago, I have learned much about the game we love. For example, many influential golf coaches with Texas ties were from your era. It has also been fun to learn about golf traditions here in The Kingdom.

I am told you based your teachings on lessons from Jack Burke Sr. in Houston. (Burke Sr. moved to Houston from Philadelphia, a hotbed for golf in the US in the early 1900s.) Burke Sr., of course, taught his son, Jackie Burke, who won the 56 Masters. He also worked with Claude Harmon, who won the Masters in 1948. Additionally, he influenced Jack and Dick Grout when they were teenagers, and both spent considerable time in Texas. 

From that list of Burke's protΓ©gΓ©s came some rather remarkable golfers. From Claude Harmon, his three sons: Dick, Craig, and Claude Harmon Jr. (i.e., Butch.) From Butch, of course, came Tiger. From Grout, none other than Jack Nicklaus. And from you, Ben Crenshaw and Tom Kite. Plus, you were an essential coach to Davis Love II, who brought us Davis Love III. In the forward of the 20th Anniversary Edition of your book, Davis Love III notes that his father must have started ten thousand sentences with the words, "As Mr. Penick would say . . ."

Furthermore, with three daughters, I am super proud that you were instrumental in founding the LPGA and worked with five LPGA Hall of Famers: Betty Jameson, Judy Rankin, Betsy Rawls, Kathy Whitworth, and Mickey Wright. The women you worked with won nearly 250 LPGA tournaments! I find this all quite remarkable, and it makes me proud to be a Texan and a member of your club.

I promise to write more soon.

gPage

Letters to Harvey from The Kingdom:

Other 'golfy' scribblings:
"Millions of people were charmed by the homespun golf advice dispensed in Harvey Penick's Little Red Book, a sports classic that became the best-selling sports book of all time. Yet, beyond the Texas golf courses where Penick happily toiled for the better part of eight decades, few people knew the self-made golf pro who coaxed the best out of countless greats -- Tom Kite, Ben Crenshaw, Betsy Rawls, Mickey Wright -- all champions who considered Penick their coach and lifelong friend." - Kevin Robbins, author of Harvey Penick: The Life and Wisdom of the Man Who Wrote the Book on Golf.
"And if you play golf, you are my friend." - Harvey Penick

Saturday, February 19, 2022

FaaFF on Saturday: You BARCHing?

Love this pic of Will Taylor (always smiling!) and Super Woman Mom.
Lucy,

Some kind words on BARCH Richmond Instagram from Will Taylor. Will has quickly become a special friend in Richmond, and Mom and I love his gym.
"If I am half the fitness level of these 2 at their age I will be a very happy man!"
Before we left for our US visit, our Thursday workout featured the 'American Kettle Bell' swing, which I am trying to demonstrate below. Notice the BARCH Richmond No Ego Training and T4TG Austin branding (on my shirt) - two fantastic gyms!

This YouTube guy does it better:


In case you are wondering: 
Unlike the Russian swing, the American swing requires a lifter to end with the weight in the overhead position rather than stopping at chest/head level. The added overhead component requires a great deal of shoulder mobility and scapular stabilization. Because American swings require a longer range of motion, one could argue that they’re more taxing overall and are better for conditioning. (ref: Barbend)
Go 'merica!

Dad

P.S. Hope all is well at Laity Lodge and for Young Life this weekend. We are proud of you and all you do!

Thursday, February 17, 2022

Speed Date: The British gPage (one minute)

Lucy,

Tomorrow, I will be on the first call with my new team in Europe. Everyone was asked to put together a slide about themselves and prepare a one-minute introduction. Above is what I am going with, and here's my script.

gPage Singletary, goes by gPage or Page. The 'g' is a tribute to my dad, Gene, whom I adored as a father and a business leader. After 10 years in M&E Named Accounts in Austin, Texas, my wife, Cathy, and I recently moved to London.
We are proud of our kids. Oldest daughter Sally, in the yellow, with her husband Taylor live near us in London. Sally owns a fast growing interior design company. Taylor is a rising star insurance executive. Middle daughter Emily, in the red, runs apparal production at consumer brand company, YETI. Her serious boyfriend, Kyle, was an All Ivy League Field Goal Kicker at Yale and works in finance. Youngest, Lucy, is a senior at Texas A&M University where she studies Graphic Art and will work in a design related field like her big sisters.

I once owned a class ring company that I sold to Balfour, the leaders in the space. I also helped launch Salient Systems, a fast growing video surveillance company. Lastly, I enjoy writing and have a family blog I share on social channels. Themes include work-life balance, entreprenurialship, selling, fitness, golf, and (in celebration of my three daughters) - Woman Power Wednesdays.

Thoughts?

Dadio

Wednesday, February 16, 2022

Woman Power: Bloom Where You Are Planted

The Brits get this right. A pint by a cozy fire! Photo from The Kings Arms pub in Oxfordshire.

Lucy May,

I'm sharing with my nugs about life in the United Kingdom. Today, I'm thinking about our transition over the past several months. The phrase, 'Bloom where you are planted,' comes to mind. Your 'mum' is the best at doing just that. We came over here six months ago with just a few suitcases. Thanks to her ability to make a home, we are settled in Richmond and starting to meet some new friends.

Cathy has fully stocked our tiny British kitchen with cutlery, plates, pots, and pans. She somehow managed to cook a large turkey in a small oven and feed no less than 16 at Thanksgiving! Grocery shopping is a daily task, as we walk back and forth and only bring home what we can carry by hand. It is a simpler life in that regard.

Many foods have different names, and brands are not what you would see in America. Check out this list of 56 Food-Related Word Differences Between Britain and the US.

May I have some fizzy water and pass the digestives, please?

Love you,

Dad

P.S. It's Woman Power Wednesday! Who was the first Woman Power Wednesday?


WPW Nuggets from the past (family)


WPW Nuggets from the past (other powerful women)

Tuesday, February 15, 2022

Iconic Commutes on Stay Whole Tuesday

Hungerford Bridge and Golden Jubilee Bridges London by Jacek Wojnarowski 
Lucy,

Yesterday's Make it a Great Monday, started some nuggets About England. One topic was how easy it is to get anywhere in London using the Citymapper app. 

For example, when I go from our home in Richmond to our London office, I enjoy a beautiful commute. I take a fast train to Waterloo Station and then have a 10-minute walk across the Golden Jubilee Bridge. The image above is what it looks like coming home at night. And this short video is worth the watch.


I'm not sure I've ever had a more enjoyable commute? Coming in a close second would be the Tiburon to San Francisco ferry, with the views of Alcatraz, the Golden Gate Bridge, and the Ferry Building, before walking down to Autodesk Pier 9 or to our One Market offices.

What do you think your first commute will be when you graduate and move into the work world?

Love,

Dad

Monday, February 14, 2022

About England Ex-pat Living


Dearest Lucy,

We'll never really know, but it's widely rumored the North door to St. Edwards Church in Stow-on-the-Wold, England, inspired J. R. R. Tolkien's fantasy world. The two ancient yew trees on either side of the door could easily have been the inspiration for the Door of Durin, the gateway to the elven kingdom of Moria. 

I am writing this post from the Cotswolds. It is our first time renting a car and driving on the 'wrong' side of the road. 'Keep the curb on the left,' is my mantra, a tip we picked up from an Uber driver. Cathy says if our marriage can survive navigating the never-ending 'roundabouts,' it can survive anything.

We have been in London for six months, and people often ask, What it is like? The Brits will say, How does it compare to Texas? I bet this weather is different? What do you think of the food? Americans mainly want to know if we have seen Ted Lasso in Richmond. 

So I am writing a few shares about life in England. I'll start with where we live, how we get around, and the weather. Future Nuggets on the food, including the amazing pub scene, parks and recreation, sports, work, culture, and politics. 

Richmond Upon Thames: We live in a small 'garden flat' in the London Borough of Richmond Upon Thames - one of 32 London boroughs located in southwest London. Richmond is the only London borough on both sides of the River Thames. (Pronounced 'temz, by-the-way.) The town is beautiful, charming, and alive with energy. Yes, Ted Lasso is filmed here, and we often see the actors around town. 

Weather: It is different than Austin, as you might imagine, but the winter has been nowhere near as severe as, say, the Northeast in the US. I have played golf nearly every weekend. The rains have not been torrential. Just showers that come in spurts. You learn to take an umbrella and layer up. The weather apps are remarkably accurate, so planning your day is essential. Less daylight in winter is a downer, but the tradeoff is longer days with moderate temps in the spring, summer, and fall. For the year, temperatures range from 39°F to 74°F, and it is rarely below 30°F or above 80°F. After 20-years in Austin, the change of seasons has been refreshing.

Transportation: We don't have a car and may not get one. We are ten minutes to the Richmond train station on foot, and from there, you can get into the city's heart in 15-20 minutes. There are twelve major railway stations around the central area of the city. Each station has train services to different regions of the country and all of Europe. Trains are efficient, clean, and affordable. The world is literally your oyster from this city.

We track our daily steps and typically hit 15,000 to 20,000. Europeans walk more than Americans, and it shows in their overall appearance. They also drink more, and I suppose that shows as well. More on that later.

Rideshares (mainly Uber) are easy to hail, clean, and top-notch drivers. They are respectful if you want quiet and interesting if you prefer a conversation. They are often from other parts of the world. We enjoy hearing their stories. Also, the London Black Cabs are amazing. I have a work colleague whose father was a London cabby and have learned quite a bit from him. This is interesting, for example, The World’s Toughest Taxi Test.

The bus system and the iconic double-decker buses are also a great way to travel. We use an app called Citymapper for getting around, and once you get the hang of it, you are good to go just about anywhere, anytime!

We sometimes call England the land of nooks and crannies, in part because of the many footpaths and partly because things are generally smaller. We have Albany Passage right beside our home, which takes us to the train station and town. And since it is Valentine's Day, I will share that the path makes for a great place to kiss your date when coming home from a nice dinner in town.

Make it a great Monday,

Dad

Other Nuggets about life in The Kingdom:

Friday, February 11, 2022

BARCH Richmond: Our gym in the UK

Good Fit as a Fiddle Friday to you, Lucy May. Celebrating BARCH Richmond, our new gym in the UK. Photo is our view each morning when we arrive at Old Deer Park Sports Ground. That is the Kew Royal Botanical Gardens pagoda in the background. Remember going to Kew Gardens for the trail of lights?

BARCH is owned by Will Taylor, who does a fantastic job marketing his gym and instructing many of the classes we attend. BARCH means 'respect' in Galic. Will is also a rugby coach and was an accomplished professional in the sport.

Be sure to check out the BARCH Insta here. If you look hard enough, you might even find video footage of your mom and dad.

Thursday, February 10, 2022

Dear Harvey: The Stage Golfing Society (London)

Harvey on the practice tee at Austin CC
Dear Harvey,

Our social life in Richmond is picking up steam! Last Sunday, I played another round at The Richmond Golf Club as the guest of my Texas ex-pat friend, Brad Berwick.

The four-ball included Brad's friends, musician Alan Price and actor Stephen GreifAlan and Stephen played well and were generous in not taking their deserved strokes. ("All bets won or lost on the first tee" comes to mind.) Brad and I took on the two prominent Brits and managed to scrape out a win coming from two down on the final three holes.

Do you remember the British rock band, The Animals? Alan was the keyboardist and produced the smash hit House of the Rising Sun. Here's Alan performing a 1980 non-charting UK single, a re-interpretation of the Animals' # 1 hit from the Sixties. Enjoy. It is an absolute classic and one of my favorites.


Stephen Greif is a UK-born, award-winning stage, film, television, and voice actor. On television, he is best known as Travis in Blakes 7, a British science-fiction program produced by the BBC. You will not believe this, but Stephen was good friends with Bud Shrake! (See The Making of The Little Red Book.) Bud and Stephen worked together on several theatre projects, including Benchmark, a play Bud wrote starring Stephen and Jerry Hall!

After the round, I enjoyed learning about The Stage Golfing Society. Alan and Stephen have been active members of society for years, which has its home at The Richmond Golf Club.

The Stage Golfing Society (SGS) was founded in 1903 and is the second oldest golf society in England. Our members are both men and women creatively involved in the Entertainment Industry. George Edwardes, the celebrated Impresario, founded the Society for the members of his theatrical companies. Rumour has it that his idea was to ensure his actors stayed out of the pubs during the day and were therefore sober when they went on stage in the evening.


Stephen and Alan have graciously invited me back for a chance to see The Stage Room, which looks impressive on the website. Be sure to click through and read the History of the Stage Golfing Society Trophies by John Baddeley. The poem, In Praise of Stableford, deserves some commentary, as that is the preferred way of playing matches in England, and I find it quite fun.

Below is a photo of our group and a beautiful view of the clubhouse taken from the 18th fairway. Lastly, enjoy some rare archive footage of golfers who were members and friends of The Stage Golfing Society between 1909 and 1946.

Left to right: Brad Berwick, Alan Price, Stephen Greif, and me

Beautiful finishing hole


Great stuff, Harvey.

We miss you (and that driving range!),

gPage

Letters to Harvey from The Kingdom:

Other 'golfy' scribblings:
"Millions of people were charmed by the homespun golf advice dispensed in Harvey Penick's Little Red Book, a sports classic that became the best-selling sports book of all time. Yet, beyond the Texas golf courses where Penick happily toiled for the better part of eight decades, few people knew the self-made golf pro who coaxed the best out of countless greats -- Tom Kite, Ben Crenshaw, Betsy Rawls, Mickey Wright -- all champions who considered Penick their coach and lifelong friend." - Kevin Robbins, author of Harvey Penick: The Life and Wisdom of the Man Who Wrote the Book on Golf.
"And if you play golf, you are my friend." - Harvey Penick